• The birds

    Dez, you and I played outside for a long, long time yesterday and while we were sitting in the cool shade on the porch, the robins this time — as opposed to the red headed sparrows — boldly walked and hopped around the porch, stopping every few seconds to cock their heads our direction. They… Read more

  • Silver medals

    I’m sitting in the dugout looking across the field at the opposing team. The game’s over, for that matter, the season’s over and the only reason both teams are still here is because it’s time for our annual assessment and rah-rah trip to Pizza Hut. We’d tied with the Governors in the championship game, tied… Read more

  • Blather

    I hadn’t heard that word in years, but now Ken uses it on occasion and I have always rather liked it and thus it seems an appropriate headline. I thought of it last night as we sat in the beer garden outside Rock Bottom for the first concert of the season at The Orchards. I… Read more

  • Fantastic article on workplace bullying

    I came across this article about workplace bullying on Time magazine’s Business and Money site. Before now, I’d never seen in print what many, many of us have commonly experienced throughout our careers. “When Good Things Happen to Bad People,” by Gary Belsky, nails it. “A lot of bullies are keen analyzers and manipulators of… Read more

  • Facial

    Me and the boys plus DS’s girlfriend Jess at the dinner table tonight and DS asks me how my day was and I say it was pretty good and that I got a facial and DS and EBD snort and laugh and I’m not sure what tiny naive part of me thought that they wouldn’t.… Read more

  • The smiley-face trap

    Every email, every post, every Facebook message I answer, I consider using periods only, no exclamation marks, let alone duplicates, no feigned elation or concern for making someone feel good about him or herself. No grins, winks, frowns or tongues. So I stand here and look at what I’ve written and wonder if I do… Read more